Gulya DiyarovaEmotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples and individuals

Relationship counselling & Psychosexual therapy for couples & individuals

Central London, Cavendish Square

EFT Training Events

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current and future EFT events



Sad It's Over - Warm Farewell and Tons of Thanks to All!!!

See you All July 2020!!

4th EFT International Summer School 2019, London UK

28-29th June 2019 - NEWCOMERS Stream
3-6th July 2019 - EFT-TRAINED Stream



Watch This Space for the Next Season Movie Club!

EFT Movie Club and Skills Lab

Download the booking form here

How we learn EFT?
· Reading books
· Attending EFT Externship, Core Skills, EFT Workshops – and Annual EFT International
Summer School!
· EFT Supervision – Groups and Individual

Have Been There… Done That…And Keep Going…!

As EFT is first and foremost an Experiential model, from experience and feedback, we learn the approach not so much from books and lectures but by “Tell, Show, D0” way.

What will we be doing at EFT Movie Club & Skills Lab?

1st Part of the session - watch together training videos of EFT Experts
conducting their Live sessions:
· Observing and noticing interventions,
· “Unpacking” finer moments of their interaction with couples,
· Pausing at frequent intervals to discuss and reflect,
· See how it resonates with us, where it lands on our hearts,
· What it evokes inside and how we might respond in our “Self-of the-Therapist’ awareness.
In the 2nd part of our sessions we will “try on”, practice and hone in Role
Plays the interventions we have just watched and discussed – amongst other various things:
· Safety First - In Escalation and constantly at every moment of the session
· Reactivity – Contain, Challenge and Control, learn how to put it to good use in the session
· Cycle – Recognising it in the Session, Tracking, Focusing, Validating, Reflecting, Summarising
and Giving it back to the couple
· Emotions – Cues, Entry points into experience, Reflect, Validate, Deepen, Enact
· Enactments – Tango moves, different types of Enactments, 3Bs (Blocks/Balks and Bullets)

And Much-Much More…

We will start with Rebecca Jorgensen's "A Complete EFT Treatment" video set, starting from Stage 1 and following deeper into the model with the same couple from the beginning till the end of their therapy (10 sessions to watch, time and schedule permitting).

Unedited 10 Sessions | Lively EFT Framework | See Transformation Unfold

In the first three sessions, Rebecca works quickly to develop an alliance with Sandra and Carl and identifies their negative interaction cycle and unmet needs.
In sessions 4-6, Sandra and Carl begin to internalize and recognize their negative interaction cycles and, with Rebecca's guidance, begin to soften considerably toward one another.
In sessions 7-10, Carl and Sandra move more deeply into their attachment fears, exploring their longing, fear and rejection in the atmosphere of warmth created by Rebecca. By the final session, the groundwork is in place for a new and more hopeful future.
“Dr Jorgensen’s attuned responsiveness and skill shows how EFT not only shapes trust and secure bonding, but also how such bonding shapes stronger and more confidant partners. You can’t help but learn a great deal from watching this master EFT therapist and trainer in action!”
— Susan Johnson, EdD, Director of ICEEFT

Your comments, reflections, and questions will be encouraged
and most welcome!

Who can participate?
The Course is open to therapists including students, who want to grasp, learn and master, or brush up on, the HOWs and WHYs of this great model in the company of like-minded and supportive fellow EFTers - who want to see Master Clinicians applying the model in various clinical situations.
· Those with no formal EFT training yet, but really EFT-inspired, who have done at least an Introductory EFT workshop, attended EFT Summer Schools, and intend to undertake EFT training.
Essential pre-requisite reading for this subgroup - "Creating Connections. Practice of EFT" and “Becoming an Emotionally Focused Therapist. Workbook” by Sue Johnson.
· Those who have started or completed formal ICEEFT EFT Training and want to access more Videos of EFT sessions.
· Experienced and/or Certified EFT therapists who want to boost and/or 'polish' their skills that took or are taking you to certification.

Commitment to the whole series is required (4 bi-monthly sessions) to preserve consistency and flow of learning the model.

Every care will be taken to preserve the confidentiality of clients.
· Attending therapists are expected to belong to recognised professional bodies (eg, BACP, UKCP, COSRT, etc) and are bound by Code of Ethics to keep confidential any clients’ information in the videos.
· Therapists will be given notice to leave the room and not participate in a session if they think they may know the clients in videos.
· Participating therapists recognise and accept that no clients’ material can be shown outside these sessions and no copies can be made.

To secure your place send your Application Form to [email protected] along with your payment (payment details are in the Form).

Dates and Times - Fridays bi-monthly 10am to 1pm
18th Jan 2019, 15th Mar, 17th May, 12th Jul
with Gulya Diyarova, ICEEFT Cert. EFT therapist and supervisor
Venue: Canada Water Library (1min from Canada Water tube, Jubilee line)

Download the booking form here

Go to EFT International School website for more info


Sad It's Over - Warm Farewell and Tons of Thanks to All!!!

See you All July 2020!

4th EFT International Summer School 2019, London UK
28-29th June 2019 - NEWCOMERS Stream
3-6th July 2019 - EFT-TRAINED Stream

Learn Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and Individuals,
Develop your existing skills,
Watch and Experience the Joy of Vulnerability and Connection with experts in the field of Emotionally Focused Therapy

Go to EFT International School website
for more info


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